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How to split chores fairly without one person becoming the backup plan

The hardest part of splitting chores fairly is not making a list. It is making the real workload visible.

Households rarely fail because nobody knows chores exist. They fail because recurring work, planning, and follow-through stay invisible. NotYourMaid is built to fix that.

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Overview

See actual task ownership

The product shows who owns chores today and what still has no owner.

Keep hidden chores visible

Weekly and daily chores stop disappearing into one person's mental list.

Check whether the split is real

Reports help you see completion patterns and recurring imbalance.

Details

Fair chore splitting needs visibility

You cannot split chores fairly if the real recurring work is not visible in the first place.

Why equal task counts are misleading

One dish reset and one deep bathroom clean are not the same load. Visibility matters more than just counting tasks.

How NotYourMaid helps

NotYourMaid makes chores visible by ownership, recurrence, and room so households can redistribute work with more accuracy.

See NotYourMaid in action

Start with the part that causes the most trouble now: unclear ownership, a room falling behind, a child's list, or the first household setup.

Check who owns the work

Open Today to see personal tasks, work assigned to everyone, due times, and what still needs an owner.

See which rooms keep falling behind

Open Rooms to see where overdue chores and recurring work are collecting.

Keep each child's task list focused

Open Kids to see the simpler list children use while adults keep the full household view.

Preview your first setup

See how people, rooms, routines, and the first recurring tasks become a shared household plan.

Start with your household

Bring over the rooms, routines, and recurring work you want everyone to follow. NotYourMaid Free is for one person: three rooms, up to ten chores in each, and your Today and Assign views. No time limit, no card. Adding a second person needs NotYourMaid Household.

New households get 14 days of NotYourMaid Household free, no card. After that, NotYourMaid Free keeps going for one person. Nothing is charged and nothing is deleted when the 14 days end. If you added other people, subscribe to keep everyone together, or keep just you on NotYourMaid Free and they come back when you subscribe.

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FAQ

Can NotYourMaid help split chores more fairly?

Yes. That is one of the main reasons the system exists.

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