Start free

How to see who does more housework in a shared home

If one person feels like they do more housework, the problem is usually not just opinion. It is missing visibility into recurring chores and follow-through.

A lot of shared homes struggle because the real volume of housework is not visible. NotYourMaid helps surface the pattern instead of forcing people to argue from memory.

Start freeSee NotYourMaid in action

Overview

Track recurring housework

Repeating chores stay visible so the full workload is easier to compare.

See whose name is on the task

The system shows which chores are assigned, shared, completed, or still unowned.

Use reporting instead of guesswork

Reports show what is getting done and what keeps falling onto the same person.

Details

The problem with memory-based chore arguments

People usually remember the chores they did most recently, not the full invisible chain of recurring tasks.

Why recurring work matters

Dishes, resets, laundry, and room cleanup create the feeling of unequal housework because they repeat constantly.

How NotYourMaid helps

NotYourMaid makes recurring work visible and attributable so the household can see whether the load is actually uneven.

See NotYourMaid in action

Start with the part that causes the most trouble now: unclear ownership, a room falling behind, a child's list, or the first household setup.

Check who owns the work

Open Today to see personal tasks, work assigned to everyone, due times, and what still needs an owner.

See which rooms keep falling behind

Open Rooms to see where overdue chores and recurring work are collecting.

Keep each child's task list focused

Open Kids to see the simpler list children use while adults keep the full household view.

Preview your first setup

See how people, rooms, routines, and the first recurring tasks become a shared household plan.

Start with your household

Bring over the rooms, routines, and recurring work you want everyone to follow. NotYourMaid Free is for one person: three rooms, up to ten chores in each, and your Today and Assign views. No time limit, no card. Adding a second person needs NotYourMaid Household.

New households get 14 days of NotYourMaid Household free, no card. After that, NotYourMaid Free keeps going for one person. Nothing is charged and nothing is deleted when the 14 days end. If you added other people, subscribe to keep everyone together, or keep just you on NotYourMaid Free and they come back when you subscribe.

Start freeSee plans

FAQ

Can NotYourMaid prove exactly who does more housework?

It cannot read every invisible task in your life, but it can make the household system much more visible and measurable.